so you seem well versed in this stuff, what do you recommend for the average home brewer?
You're probably going to get slightly higher viability from a shaken culture than a stirred one, but I doubt very many homebrewers are going to have access to a shaker platform to perform continuous orbital shaking.
I'd doubt it's going to make much of a difference, if you pitch the same number of viable yeast, but it probably is a good argument for decanting the spent wort. I'd go with whatever gets you to the cell count you need (realizing that some calculators probably over-estimate the volume starter you need and the actual number needed is pretty forgiving). You're going to increase your cell number by something like 150 billion cells per Liter with a stirred starter and 90 billion cells per Liter from a periodically shaken starter.
I've made excellent beer with yeast pitched from a fermentation (an unstirred culture), from shaken cultures, and from stirred cultures. First, I'd ask, what problem are we trying to solve by not using stirred propagation?