My water does not pass through a softener but it does go through a calcite filter in order to add TDS to my extremely low TDS water. The water out of the calcite filter is brew friendly enough with bicarb of 95 and low content of the other minerals. The reason I don't use that water is that I am not convinced of the consistency of output by the filter and I would be concerned about that in a home with a water softener as well.
Good point. If nothing else, you want consistency in your water and you want to *KNOW* what levels of each ion are there so you know how to adjust for each style, etc. A moving target would make brewing so much less pleasant. JP, hundreds of years ago, brewery owners searched far and wide looking for the right water. This must be why Milwaukee, St. Louis and Boulder, CO were chosen as brewing sites. You need to run your family/marriage in the same fashion. Tell your wife that water is thicker than blood (or anything else) and that you need to go out on a quest in search of the best brewing water. When you finally end up in Bimbleton, Wymoing, tell your wife it was meant to be.
Edited by KenLenard, 16 June 2014 - 06:28 AM.